Indian society has been so framed where
there is little or no place for women. Women are only seen as housewives
and objects to be treated as men want to.
Equality exists no where. Not even in urban areas or cities.
I too had been a victim of gender discrimination & sexual
harassment. Indian society mostly exploits women in the name of culture
restricting freedom of women & giving undue freedom to men. Women
are made to keep quiet in the name of shame while on the other hand
shameless men do as they want & people here blame women for what all
men do, the dresses they wear, even laughing & smiling is thought of as misconduct & provocating men in the Indian society.
Even
some women blindly favour men & love to get themselves exploited
& those who raise voices against it are mistreated & misbehaved
with. Past two years was like a hell to me, when I was in my college
& the students & the management left no stone unturned to effect
my studies & lower my grades just because of a boy who was
unnecessarily after me. Most of them tried to misbehave with me, passed
comments, even girls for no fault of mine. Is this the culture in which
if everything is covered & is wrong gets society’s approval but if
anything even right which they know is disclosed just because it is
linked to a girl or a woman is overhyped making no room for me even to
breathe. Last two years I felt I was living with insane people. After
having clearled all things still they were after me & monitored me
unnecessarily. They even gave me internal marks less than others after
that incident happened. Even though I complained but nothing can be done
as this is India, my free India with no freedom for women to venture
out is a big thing, we don’t even get enough freedom to do our work
without being teased or harassed unnecessarily just because of being a caste of women who are weak, downtrodden & objects of marriage
in this society & their dreams & their own life is not given
worth & their is only struggle for those things which men easily
get.
And the most important thing is that they can never be assumed single
without having any affair. Indian women are born just to cry “oh it’s a
girl, we need to marry her & collect money for it”. No one says that we want to see her becoming something & to marry or not is her choice. Where is the freedom & right to life. I can’t see anywhere.
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